Saturday, April 27, 2013

Raise Your Glass and Put It Down


Read through to the end of this entry, and you will see how all the sections fit together—I promise.

The Survey:

Survey results that fit into the Interesting-But-Not Surprising Category:

More than half of the teachers questioned in the MetLife Survey of the American Teacher said they felt under “great stress” several days a week.

This is not news to most of us.  We understand the results of the significant educational reforms, including new academic standards and new teacher evaluation systems.  Michael Cohen, the president of Achieve, an education nonprofit group, says of the survey results, “What struck me most is they [teachers] are operating in an environment of public discourse that is often focused on blame.”  Ouch! 

The Research:

From a February 2013 Time Magazine Interview with neuroscientist Bruce McEwen:

Stress systems were put there to help the body adapt and survive.  They have a good side and a bad side…. Good stress is rising to a challenge, feeling exhilarated when your body and brain are working properly to help you do so….  Toxic stress is where bad things happen, perhaps because you don’t have the inner or external resources needed to cope and perhaps because you have had early life adversity, which makes you vulnerable to adverse outcomes.

The Story:

The following is a story bouncing around on the Internet.  I was unable to trace its origin:

A young lady confidently walked around the room with a raised glass of water while explaining stress-management to an audience. Everyone knew she was going to ask the ultimate question: "Half empty or half full?"

She fooled them all. "How heavy is this glass of water?" she inquired with a smile.

Answers ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

She replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm. If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.

"In each case it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."

She continued, "That's the way it is with stress. If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on.

"As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again. When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden--holding stress longer and better each time."

The Point:

Teaching is a stressful profession these days.  It has been and will likely continue to be so in the foreseeable future.  Some stress is good, maybe even healthy.  Over time, the stress we face can wear us down.

When the glass gets too heavy, find a way to put it down for a bit.  Laugh with friends, hug a child, walk in the sun, read a good book, or cook a great meal.  In school, buy a plant from the FFA, go to a concert or sporting event, joke with a student or peer, or shake hands with every student coming through your door.

Bruce McEwen, the neuroscientist referenced above, says it is our perception that makes all the difference: “It’s where you perceive yourself that matters.  The brain is the key because it perceives and decides what is stressful in the traditional sense of the word and regulates behavior and physiology.”  When we find a way to let it all go for a bit and focus on what is really important in life and at school, it will inevitably change our perception. 

Raise your glass in a toast to this thought:

We have great students and a great staff, all working towards a common goal.   

It just might help relieve some of your stress.

Have a great week.

Phil


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