Sunday, December 9, 2012

Tell Me About It


Last week I stole from Lisa, and this week I’m stealing a response to what Lisa wrote, but I want to make a point about the importance of reflection in teaching.  I’ll start with some background, give you a story, and make an argument.

The Background

One of the things we know is that we don't take enough time to reflect on how we are doing.  Our schedules are tight. Our To Do lists grow rather than shrink.  The next class walks through the door, and we struggle to keep our noses above water.  Jim Collins, who wrote the Good to Great books on leadership, tells of the value of spending extended time on reflection: 80% of the time doing our job and 20% of the time figuring out how to get better.  Most of us agree this is a good idea but wonder how that could possibly work in real life.

The upshot is that we hear that we should take time to reflect—and we agree—but the next deadline rushes at us.  So we put off the important for the urgent.  You know the feeling.

The Story:

Below is a response I received to last week’s “From B106” memo.  It comes from Jen Eberly, who teaches English Language Learners, primarily from Mexico, and presents a compelling story about the importance of knowing our students and building strong relationships with them.  From Jen:

What you wrote about comes up each year for me in my EL classes.  Christmas in the States is an incredibly lonely and sad time for many of my students. Being far away from friends, family, and special traditions makes the anticipation of Christmas a rather large let down.  Christmas traditions in Mexico are focused around family and the community.  Most, if not all, towns celebrate with posadas which would be best described as a holiday progressive where families spend the evening moving from house to house to celebrate the holiday.  As families moved here to the States, these traditions were left in Mexico, along with the family members who stayed behind.  Crossing the border at night with only the clothes on your back obviously means that treasured Christmas decorations do not make the list of necessary items.  Most are also in situational poverty which translates to not having extra money to purchase a tree or new Christmas decorations once they have arrived.

As a way of bringing some cheer to the classroom this year, I took my level III students to Eby Pines to experience cutting down a Christmas tree. I had the time of my life watching them carefully scrutinize each and every tree, trying to find one they deemed worthy of representing our class. ....Of course reality set in after some time, and I eventually had to say, "Good Lord, just pick one in the next 60 seconds or I'm going to pick it for you!"    

They finally found one, took turns sawing it down and carried it back to the bus.  Now they fondly enter the room each day and greet the tree which they have named Gordita!  They have even brought their friends by to visit it!  Of course it doesn't make up for their lost memories and traditions, but perhaps it helps to brighten this season just a bit. 

The Argument:

Story-telling is reflection.  In fact, considering our daily demands and schedule, it may be the most realistic form of reflection available to us.  Consider Jen’s story above.  You can talk all you want about building relationships and understanding your students.  You could read books and research on its importance, and you could spend hours writing about it. 

Or you can tell the story of how one teacher is making a difference in the lives of her students. 

You all have these stories to tell.  These are stories of engaged students, of lessons that challenge kids and make them think, and of seeing the light bulb go on.  They also might be stories of lessons that flopped.  You tried something, and it didn’t work.  It happens!  Tell the story, laugh about it, and then tell the story of how you fixed the problem.  When you do, you have spent time reflecting on good teaching practice, and it will pay dividends later on.

You have great stories to tell, important stories.  I encourage you to find time to tell them to yourself and to others.  And I hope you find time to create opportunities for new stories.  Story-telling is part of the reflection process.  It is part of the learning process.  It is how we will continue our journey towards excellence.

I hope your week is a great one, one worth talking about.

Phil

Some sage advice on the importance of reflection:

  •   “Follow effective action with quiet reflection.  From the quiet reflection will come even more effective action.”  –James Levin
  •  “I am writer of books in retrospect.  I talk to understand; I teach in order to learn.” –Robert Frost
  • “By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is the easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.”  –Confucius
  • “Over the years I have become convinced that we learn best—and change—from hearing stories that strike a chord within us.”  --John Kotter

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